20th September 2019- Dee's diary entry- Being single doesn't mean lonely, lost or sad.

I'm finally learning to be on my own and that I don't need to be in a relationship to be happy. Being single doesn't mean that you are sad. The stereotype needs to change. One could be in a relationship and still not be happy or satisfied. Where as one could be by themselves and be content with it. Learn to be happy with yourself before finding the right person because the person that talks to you the most is yourself (your conscious). 

So if you been skipping from one relationship to the next and nothing is working out ,Maybe its the time to step back and do some introspection. why is this happening?? Am I not good enough?? ( is the common thought that comes to mind ) but no! Don't play the blame game because its easy to blame it on someone or even on yourself but maybe you should treat this as a life lesson. Maybe if we took time to work on ourselves, the cycle will end. Well that's how I see it.  And remember the more attention (time) you give something the more importance you give to it and in turn the more power it has over you. 

Take the journey of finding your true self and you will stumble upon that special someone. And if you don't, that's perfectly fine.